The vast majority of humans enjoy companionship, whether that’s through a relationship  or friendship. Over 98% of humans engage in some type of sexual activity. This requires “courting” of some type. Yet, the skills to succeed in appealing to other people are never taught or discussed. Society decided we were born with our amount of appeal. This is not true. We can learn what makes us appealing to a partner. These are all the aspects of appeal.

Notice how they are all weighed evenly. The more balanced your chart the more appeal you will have.

For example, let’s look at Bill Gates chart.

Now let’s look at Angelina Jolie’s chart.

Now let’s look at (insert model of choice who is a bad person)   

See how you have more appeal with a balanced chart. Notice the more the chart is skewed to one section the better you have to be at that one thing. If people only find you appealing because of your money then you better have a lot of it.

The problem with an unbalanced chart is it is not sustainable. Sure, you will appeal to people for a period of time, but it will always fade. The key to lasting appeal is developing all of these areas. Here’s the best part, each area can be developed. You are not born into or out of any section of this pie. Future articles will breakdown each area, and give you actionable ways to improve your appeal.